The Cost of Avoiding Pain

The Cost of Avoiding Pain

If you look for truth, you may find comfort in the end; if you look for comfort, you will get neither comfort nor truth, only soft soap and wishful thinking to begin with and, in the end, despair. —C.S. Lewis Most of our big fears will be realized. I’m an optimist and...
The Cost of Avoiding Pain

How to Find Passion at Mid-life

I’m celebrating my 51st birthday this week. The best thing about turning 51 is that I’m not fifty anymore. Turning fifty and being fifty sucked. For you forty-nine year-olds, you have been warned. For those turning fifty and dreading it or hating it, there’s hope....